Motherhood is a trip where you never quite feel you’re in the clear. As soon as you get through one crazy curve, you’re careening into the next one. And the tools that once helped you navigate often don’t work anymore. Or they do, but you have to MacGyver them into something almost completely new—to the point where you sometimes feel grateful you’re still on the road at all. The moms with pre-teens on this blog were chatting the other day about how we feel we’ve outgrown the kind of mom guilt that our name seems to imply. We don’t agonize over things like daycare as much as we once did. … [more...]

I love it when a family creates something cool together. My family doesn't do nearly enough of this, because we're all too "busy" doing "things" so much of the time. Once in a while, we make something, like this fused glass workshop Cassie and I did together earlier this year. When I saw this video promoting a new mobile app, I was totally inspired to get cracking on my family's creativity front. I think you will, too: Back in the day, Jon Alexander (the dad featured in this video) and I worked together at an ad agency. I didn't know him well, but I knew he was uber creative, a … [more...]

The Enterovirus 68 is making headlines as it’s the culprit behind many seriously ill children in the Midwest and potentially beyond. Hospitals, including the Cincinnati Children’s Hospital Medical Center, report admitting record numbers of patients over the past week, many stricken with the uncommon and nasty virus. Most at-risk to be affected by Enterovirus D68 are those with a history of asthma or other weakened systems. So, how can a busy working mom help to prevent your children from becoming ill? According to Dr. Derek Wheeler, associate chief of staff at the Cincinnati Children’s … [more...]

A few weeks ago, I was invited to join a small lunch-and-learn event at the local YWCA. Along with a group of Cincinnati-based bloggers, I learned about the organization's mission ("Eliminating racism, empowering women") and how they help women and children dealing with domestic violence. Really valuable and important stuff. I meant to write about it, but after the luncheon, I got distracted by work, family, the usual, and it fell off my radar. After reading, hearing and seeing what Baltimore Ravens player Ray Rice did to his then fiancee (now wife) Janay, intimate partner violence … [more...]

Is it just me, or has the whole "back to school" season become one more competition to show just how awesome of a mom you are? From the uber-specific school supply lists we're supposed to source (reference this "artisanal" list of school supplies on The Science of Parenthood if you need a laugh on this subject) to back-to-school teacher gifts and parties(!) people are planning on Pinterest, I feel like the mompetition is getting a little out of control. I'm volunteering to be the voice of sanity and reason for all us working moms (and SAHMs, for that matter) who will be settling for … [more...]

After 41 grueling weeks of pregnancy and a long multi-day induction, my husband and I recently welcomed a new baby girl, Kendall, into our family. From there it was inevitable, I was going to have to leave the hospital filled with helpful and caring nurses and delicious meals on-demand to head home and face life as a mother of two young children. Kendall is a month old today, so I'm still new to life with two kids. That said, here are my thoughts so far on bringing home baby number two. Foreigner lied: It doesn't feel like the first time. When I gave birth to my first child it was the … [more...]

You may have heard of the "summer slide," or the loss of learning that naturally occurs between the last day of one school year and the first day of the next. It's a normal occurrence, given that humans generally can't remember everything they've been taught, but too much of it is not so good. Working moms don't always have a lot of time to spend considering how much learning their children are retaining, and, often, their children are just fine anyway. But with summer starting to wind down, some WMAGs might be looking for a few (relatively) painless ways to clear the dust and debris from … [more...]

Is your daughter safe, or vulnerable? That’s a scary question. It’s also somewhat broad, intentionally. People share articles on Facebook all the time about parents who need to ‘back off’ and let their children have more freedom. I completely disagree. And I'm prepared to tell you why. Growing Up in the Good Old Days Back in the 80s, I could ride my bike, alone, around the neighborhood. At night. Or with my neighbors, two boys. We rode bicycles to the Convenience Store and bought baseball cards. I really liked hanging out with my neighbors. They were my age. They were nice. They were … [more...]

  The transition from full-time, working (outside the home) mom to stay-at-home mom has not been a seamless one for this girl. As I’ve written before, I knew staying home would be a world away from going to work each day, but nothing could have prepared me for just how different it would be. Over the last three months, I’ve made some observations about my new position (Operations Manager, I like to call it), and life. Here’s what: My hands are always wet. Between chopping fruits and veggies, wiping up spills, and washing the 8000 parts that comprise my toddler’s sippy cups, you can … [more...]

While my husband and I were dating, I kept my apartment tidy and well decorated. I was keeping up a well put together facade. Then one day he opened the door to my hall closet, and his head barely missed the avalanche of items not so neatly stored away. Despite his discovery, he married me anyway. I’d like to say that since we both work, the household chores are divided fifty-fifty, but that is simply not true. He does all of the things that I’m too lazy to do, and he thinks of a million others that wouldn’t even occur to me. He even planted a vegetable garden. I don’t think I’ve … [more...]