Mean Mommy Guilt: When Doing What’s Right Goes Wrong

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Lately I’ve been forced to be a very mean mommy. Not “no wire-hangers” mean…but I’ve had to make our daughter Peachy to do all sorts of things Peachy just doesn’t want to do. She’s kicking, and screaming, and pushing me away. She’s crying real tears, practically hyperventilating. She’s beet red…snot nosed…and so very angry at [...]

Working Dads Against Guilt

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Here at WMAG we talk a lot about working mom guilt – after all it’s in our name. Whether it’s guilt over missing milestones and moments, frustration trying to balance it all, or the judgement we feel from others over our decision to work – most of our posts are written with us, the working [...]

Lessons From Selling the Family Home

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I am convinced there is a circle of hell that is devoted to forcing people to re-live the agony of selling a home. It is the worst. THE WORST. While this isn’t the first time I have done it, this was the first time I’ve had to do it with a couple of kids (my [...]

Letting go of the dream

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I stumbled upon Oprah’s “Fatherless Sons” episode the other night. It didn’t take long before I was in tears watching it. While it was talking with an audience of men that grew up without fathers, it also talked about the affect of parents on a person when they reach adulthood. One of the things that [...]

My Mother, My Guilt (Anonymous Guest Post)

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Someone I know, like and respect very much asked me if she could write a few guest posts for this blog. I agreed, because she is a fantastic storyteller and has totally legit reasons for keeping her identity private. So we’re calling her posts “Tales from the Family Crypt.” Feel free to comment away (anonymously, [...]

Daycare Pickup – Last Mom Standing

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There are times when being the last one standing is a good thing. The game of Poker. The TV show Survivor. Dodgeball…Cage match wrestling…American Idol. But when do I absolutely hate being last? Daycare pickup.   I spend my days watching minutes. If I don’t leave the house by a certain benchmark my dreaded commute [...]

Drop off + Tears = Mommy Guilt

My 3.5 year old is just starting to figure out that some mommies, likely seemingly better mommies in his estimation, stay home.  They do not go to work.  Their job is to watch their children.  The first conversation went something like this: “Mommy.  Andy’s mommy does not go to work.  She stays home and watches [...]

My Boobs Are None of Your Business

Breasts and body fluids are two topics of conversation that are generally taboo in decent society. Passing off as “mommy club” conversation, however, women ask new moms about breastfeeding.  In my experience, such questions come without invitation and the answers are less clear-cut than might be expected. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends exclusively breastfeeding [...]

In Vitro Fertilization – Remembering Robert Edwards

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This week women across the world lost a pioneer – a visionary leader who fought to give us hope. A brilliant mind that pushed past what others thought was possible to present women everywhere with life-changing opportunities. I’m actually not talking about Margaret Thatcher, the former British Prime Minister who passed away last Monday (though [...]

Returning to Work After Maternity Leave

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Well hi there – I’m Stephanie, and I’m new here. I’m also new to this whole working mom thing, and to being a mom in general. Our daughter, whom we lovingly refer to as Peachy, turned 8 months old this week. That means I’ve been back at work exactly 5 months. The scars of returning back [...]