Why All Mothers Should Celebrate Black History Month


Here are some questions you don’t see too often on a mom blog:

  • Who was W.E.B. DuBois and what role did he play in American history?
  • What was Jim Crowe and how did it effect black life from the Civil War to the present?
  • What were Langston Hughes’ most important writings and how was his work perceived by American society in his lifetime?

Why are you reading these questions? Because it’s almost February, Black History Month, and these are just a few of the millions of questions worthy either of a dissertation or, at least, a good delving into next month.

Unfortunately, however, instead of these or similar inquiries, you’re much more likely to hear this question come February:

“Why don’t we have a White History Month if we have a Black History Month?” 

On one hand, the question is understandable. Of course we all want to be viewed as people worthy of recognition and for our rich histories to be recognized. On the other hand, the question reveals a sad truth American society and, to some extent, our education system: We are a people with selectively short memories.

Black History Month started as a way to recognize the history of a people whose history had largely been either erased or written without consent. And, although notable African Americans are these days incorporated to a larger extent into American history texts, black history is still entirely secondary within the dominant American historical narrative. After all, how well can you answer the opening questions? Most Americans would not thrive at this task, and it’s not because they failed history. And it’s also not because the answers to those questions are unimportant.

Teaching a people’s history serves to validate the experiences and indeed the existence of that people, but it also benefits those of us members of the dominant culture, the purveyors of historical consciousness. It is only by knowing another’s history that we can truly say we know a person, and there are countless ways that we profit in doing so: from “the business case for diversity” that argues—proves, really—that cultural competence is an important component of business acumen, to the less measurable enrichment of our lives that often occurs when we experience and learn from people who are different from ourselves.

The benefit most important to me, though, especially when I think of my own children, boils down to the simple but impossible-to-overestimate importance of being informed. And in 2015, this particular history seems particularly relevant. Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you’ve probably witnessed race making the news quite a bit lately.

The shooting of numerous black men by police officers across the country has reignited a debate that has taken place since our country’s inception: Are African Americans being given a fair deal? But regardless of our individual answers to this question and our stances on the incidents that have recently occurred, one thing most of us can agree on is that we’d like ourselves and our children to be able to come to our own conclusions armed with the knowledge required to say we are truly informed.

If for this reason alone, let’s take some time next month to brush up on our history.

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10 thoughts on “Why All Mothers Should Celebrate Black History Month

  1. One of the best things I did in college was to take classes in as many subjects I could find, including the histories and cultures of different ethnicities. Now it’s all about reading as many books I can on lives super different from mine.

    And yes, whenever I hear about the debates going on, I think the most important question to ask is, WHY are people so upset? Why are they protesting and rioting? It’s so easy to forget that part.

  2. Being properly informed is something I definitely struggle with as a working mom. There are only so many hours in a day, and to devote time to truly understand the dynamics of challenging current events can be difficult. But I feel that it is my responsibility, particularly as a parent, to make sure I’m informed and competently teaching my children better ways than the ones we’re living with now.

    1. Agreed: difficult and crucial!

  3. meunfinished says:

    Having been reared in a different country, I can tell you that this continues to be a salient point in my community: in the history books, why is everybody not represented equally? I agree that we should brush up on our history, but I also submit that we include the parts we celebrate and learn about in February in the everyday learning of this country’s history. It is a tall order, but in today’s world, a necessary one.

    1. Absolutely. I hope to live to see the day that we no longer need a “black history month,” but in the meantime, it’s the least we can do.

  4. First of all, major side-eye to anyone who asks the question, “Why don’t we have a white history month?” At best, that shows a serious lack of understanding of the concept of privilege as well as history.

    Other than that, great points in this post. Being informed and understanding these issues is important, and it’s important for us to teach our children.

    1. Haha…”major side-eye” yes…but when people are truly ignorant of history (and therefore privilege), the instinct for the desire to be recognized is understandable. But it is definitely unfortunate that so many people remain this oblivious to the facts, and plenty of justification for all manner of facial expressions…

    1. Thank you, Kristina!

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